Ordeals of Adolesence: Part 2
Lets start with apologising this time. Firstly, I apologise for getting this blog so late (was busy fighting the world). Next I would like to apologise to the world for being such an excellent girl (i know it must be crazy for your self esteem patriarchs) and lastly I apologise to myself for being an Indian.
You know its becoming more and more shameful to proudly say that I belong to such a beautiful country. To belong with such dirty minded people. India we can say is a world made by excellent minds and ruined by narrow-minded low-thinking people.This all shit is known by everyone, so now lets get a little more specific.
On this Valentines day lets talk about the most interesting relationship of human existence:
THE BOY-GIRL THING
have any of you girls experienced dirty looks from strangers when you are with your male friends? or any of the boys witnessed distasteful stares when you are accompanying a female friend?? One of the most important issues is the boy-girl relationships in teenage. No I don't mean a romantic relationship, but here I mean the common human relationship. From the day we are brought to this world we're- no matter how lovingly- constantly remained that we are girls/boys and we should remain distanced from the opposite sex. We are seated in different rows, told to be friends with only girls or boys and no one from "that" gender and sometimes admitted into specific gender school. I mean seriously, is it such a harmful hazard to lets boys and girls mingle?? Actually one of the reasons behind this women harassment is this distancing that is done . I mean boys and girls are treated like two sub species. We are never allowed to intermix and then suddenly wham! in your adolescence, every boy/girl is surrounded by room full of girls/boys.You are -willimgly or not-paired with them but no way can you befirend them. You don't know what that species is. How they behave, what they think. You are fascinated. You long for the friendship because you are curious as every other human. But no you don't get the chance because someone has told that person to stay away from the opposite sex. What do you do? You hate him/her. Girls bitch and boys harass. Neither realises how the other feels and how their brain works.
What this country needs is to stop differentiating boys as boys and girls as girls. Why cant we all be humans?? Why do we have to make a face like a half beaten yolk when we see a boy and girl talking? And even if they are in a romantic relationship, whats the big deal? They are in love for god's sake! And since childhood I have been educated that love is a good thing. Then how does this love gets so many hates?? and if you are so scared of the love relationships then dont let even boys-boys or girls-girls mingle because nowadays even that is taking place. I mean the logic of our society is that we wont let two people in love be united instead we'll hook two strangers together and "arrange" their life. I mean seriously?? Look at what shit is coming out of that prestigious hole of yours.
In the end I would only say two things, a message to each generation.
THE 19'S PEOPLE; please try to cooperate with us and don't stick to your "pure" Indian culture as a blind's stick
AND TO THE 21st's YOYOS; don't be divided into two subspecies. Don't see the other gender as the "other gender". See them as one of yours. Just make this country free of gender specificity. And don't try to prove superiority to the other sex, because in the end we need each other. Spread the love!
thank you for giving this your time. any comments/compliments/feedback will be honoured and read by welcoming eyes(:P). await my next blog!!
-theChosenJoshi
You know its becoming more and more shameful to proudly say that I belong to such a beautiful country. To belong with such dirty minded people. India we can say is a world made by excellent minds and ruined by narrow-minded low-thinking people.This all shit is known by everyone, so now lets get a little more specific.
On this Valentines day lets talk about the most interesting relationship of human existence:
THE BOY-GIRL THING
have any of you girls experienced dirty looks from strangers when you are with your male friends? or any of the boys witnessed distasteful stares when you are accompanying a female friend?? One of the most important issues is the boy-girl relationships in teenage. No I don't mean a romantic relationship, but here I mean the common human relationship. From the day we are brought to this world we're- no matter how lovingly- constantly remained that we are girls/boys and we should remain distanced from the opposite sex. We are seated in different rows, told to be friends with only girls or boys and no one from "that" gender and sometimes admitted into specific gender school. I mean seriously, is it such a harmful hazard to lets boys and girls mingle?? Actually one of the reasons behind this women harassment is this distancing that is done . I mean boys and girls are treated like two sub species. We are never allowed to intermix and then suddenly wham! in your adolescence, every boy/girl is surrounded by room full of girls/boys.You are -willimgly or not-paired with them but no way can you befirend them. You don't know what that species is. How they behave, what they think. You are fascinated. You long for the friendship because you are curious as every other human. But no you don't get the chance because someone has told that person to stay away from the opposite sex. What do you do? You hate him/her. Girls bitch and boys harass. Neither realises how the other feels and how their brain works.
What this country needs is to stop differentiating boys as boys and girls as girls. Why cant we all be humans?? Why do we have to make a face like a half beaten yolk when we see a boy and girl talking? And even if they are in a romantic relationship, whats the big deal? They are in love for god's sake! And since childhood I have been educated that love is a good thing. Then how does this love gets so many hates?? and if you are so scared of the love relationships then dont let even boys-boys or girls-girls mingle because nowadays even that is taking place. I mean the logic of our society is that we wont let two people in love be united instead we'll hook two strangers together and "arrange" their life. I mean seriously?? Look at what shit is coming out of that prestigious hole of yours.
In the end I would only say two things, a message to each generation.
THE 19'S PEOPLE; please try to cooperate with us and don't stick to your "pure" Indian culture as a blind's stick
AND TO THE 21st's YOYOS; don't be divided into two subspecies. Don't see the other gender as the "other gender". See them as one of yours. Just make this country free of gender specificity. And don't try to prove superiority to the other sex, because in the end we need each other. Spread the love!
thank you for giving this your time. any comments/compliments/feedback will be honoured and read by welcoming eyes(:P). await my next blog!!
-theChosenJoshi
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